I am so bursting with pride at my daughter! She demonstrated such fantastic strength and self confidence today that it nearly brought tears to my eyes to just know that someone as incredible as she actually comes from a part of me. I am so proud of her!!
She told me today that she isn’t going to call Dave “Dave” anymore, but he will from now on be referred to as “It”. A few hours later she told me that all the damage he has done has affected her and her sister too. I felt horrible and apologized. She then said she’d like to write him a letter telling him just how she felt about everything he’s done to our family. I told her she had every right to feel that way and to write whatever letters she wanted. She was surprised I said that and said,” I’m going to go write it right now then!”
She went in her room and came back awhile later asking me to read her letter. It was very well written for a 12 year-old! She didn’t resort to writing anything mean or hateful. She merely said that what he’s done has affected her and her sister and that she thought he was a much better person than that. She wrapped it up by writing, “You need to man-up and say you’re sorry to my mom or else leave my family alone!”
She then asked if she could deliver it immediately, she wanted him to get it as soon as possible she said. I told her of course she could do whatever she wanted with her letter because those are her feelings and she’s entitled to them and to share them with whoever shec chooses. She marched that letter straight over to his house and left it for him!
Wow! I’m so delighted and excited to see that she’s so strong and confident with herself, her sense of right and wrong, and her value as a person. She is a phenomenal girl… I’m overwhelmed at her confidence and self esteem. On a selfish note, I feel relieved to see that she’s not at all afraid to stand up for what and who she believes in, regardless of the weakness I’ve unfortunately demonstrated to her at times through this horrible ordeal. Yayyyyyyyy Lexi!!!!!!
I’m not that strong sometimes now when dealing with this issue. I can’t imagine having that kind of self esteem and courage at 12! She is my hero!